The Quran promotes modest behaviour, its culture being that of modesty—an incomparable virtue. The translation of the relevant verse of the chapter Al-Furqan (The Criterion) of the Quran is as follows:

When one discovers God, one discovers at the same time that the only possible way for a person to conduct himself is with modesty. Modesty stems directly from the realisation of God. It is not possible to separate it from belief in God. The believer’s personality is a modest one in the complete sense of the word. Modesty has twofold benefits: first, it makes one a better member of society. Second, it makes one a successful candidate for Paradise. Modesty is good for the present world and the world hereafter.

Modesty is necessary to find the truth. In order to find the truth, one has to lose oneself, and nobody can attain this without the exercise of patience. Then the realisation of truth shows a man that the division of resources in this universe is a matter between the giver and the receiver. God is the Giver, and man is the receiver. After discovering this reality, the actual feeling that develops in man is known as gratefulness. That is to say that, in order to reach reality, man has to exercise patience and, in order to assimilate this reality within himself, he has to be grateful.

The greatest minus point is arrogance, while the greatest plus point is modesty. Arrogance means denying God’s bounty, and modesty means acknowledging God’s contribution. Therefore, according to the Quran, the arrogant should be punished for their ungratefulness, and the modest should be blessed with greater bounty.

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Belief in God—Tawheed—enables man to establish a direct link between God and man. It makes man humble and modest instead of proud and arrogant. This is because belief in one Great God implies that man is His humble servant and that modesty alone befits him. Believers know that they must submit to God, on whom they depend utterly. Submission to one God results in individual freedom and dignity, for, all human beings become equal and all deserve our respect.

There is only one God and all of us are servants of the same God. Belief in the oneness of God helps individuals to live in unity with others. Belief in one Creator gives a sense of oneness with all creation.

Life and death are entirely in God’s hands.

Belief in one God gives the believers confidence; for, they trust in God and believe that nothing can happen unless God wills it. Life and death are entirely in His hands. They remain content because they believe that power, wealth, and success come from God alone. He gives them to whom He wants and takes them away from whom he wants. Tawheed thus brings about a unique blend of submission to God with human dignity and freedom.

Source: Spirit of Islam January 2015

The ego is present in everyone, in varying degrees. This gives one courage and confidence. If a person has no ego, he will be deprived of self-confidence and in the absence of self-confidence, no one can perform any worthwhile task. But it is necessary that one’s feelings of self-confidence should be bound by limitations, that is, it should be reined in by the feeling of modesty.

In the absence of such pressure, a person will lose his utility and viability in social life. He will suffer from excessive pride. And without a doubt, there is nothing more destructive than excessive pride in this world. There are two things in this world that make a person modest. One is a scientific bent of mind; the other is being God-fearing. A scientific bent of mind results from the realization of knowledge. And a God-fearing mind is the result of the discovery and realization of God.

When excessive pride builds up in a person, it could be because he sees himself in relation to others, and since there are many people he finds less accomplished than himself, the feeling of ego or appreciation of his own greatness begins to grow. But one who has a scientific bent of mind in the real sense sees himself and his issues in relation to knowledge rather than in relation to the person who has knowledge. A person can be limited, but knowledge is unlimited. In relation to the person who has knowledge, one can think of oneself as greater than others but in relation to the vast world of knowledge, everyone is less in stature. This feeling naturally produces modesty in a scientific or learned person.

One who has fear of God will see his affairs in relation to God, the Almighty. When one sees oneself in relation to God, everyone becomes small, in relation to God.

Similarly, one who has fear of God will see his affairs in relation to God, the Almighty. When one sees oneself in relation to God, everyone becomes small, in relation to God. No one is great. In this way, the belief of a God-fearing man makes him a balanced and modest person.

Source: Spirit of Islam June 2019

The spirit of Islam may be called the Allah-u-Akbar spirit. The expression Allah-u-Akbar is repeated several times during Salath or prayer. Allah-u-Akbar means God is great. It implies that ‘I am not great’. In this way, every day, all believers refresh their minds repeatedly with the idea that greatness pertains only to God: there is no greatness for them.

Congregational prayer is a practical demonstration of this reality. In congregational prayer, all believers make one person a prayer leader, and the rest stand behind him. This is a social form of expression of the Allah-u-Akbar spirit.

The purpose of saying Allah-u-Akbar is to develop the spirit of modesty. When the spirit of modesty develops in a person in the real sense, it does not stop at any point; just as this spirit manifests itself before God during prayer, it manifests itself in like manner in relation to other human beings. The spirit of modesty becomes part and parcel of his everyday life.

Those who are imbued with this spirit will never display egoism or pride. They will never distance themselves from others on minor provocations. Working under others will appear to them as an act of worship. Their spirit will find happiness in surrender and modesty rather than in making others surrender to them. They will accept their mistakes. They will be totally free from any desire for leadership.

If one has the Allah-u-Akbar spirit, he will be a modest person.

Source: Spirit of Islam June 2019

A: Self-respect is not a quality; it is a beautiful name of arrogance. The most important quality of man is modesty.

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