PATIENCE AND COMPASSION

In chapter 90 of the Quran, it is described who the truly fortunate are—those who will receive great reward from God. It says:

“And he is of those who believe and who urge one another to patience and compassion. They are the people of the right hand.” (90:17-18)

Faith in God is the foundation of all virtues. When a person believes in God, they fulfill not only the requirements of servitude to their Creator and Sustainer, but also begin to develop the noble character necessary to live among others in a way that is pleasing to God.

What is expected of a believer in relation to others can be summed up in a single word: compassion—to be kind, caring, and a sincere well-wisher to all. In speech, one must use only respectful words. In conduct, one must strive for the highest standard of behaviour. In every transaction, the intention must be rooted in goodwill. All interactions with fellow human beings should be based on mercy and kindness.

But in this world, it is not possible to embody compassion without also practicing patience and self-restraint. By the nature of life, people will inevitably wrong each other—whether intentionally or unintentionally. Disagreements will occur. Harsh words may be spoken. Actions may wound the ego.

This is why, to walk the path of compassion, one must be firmly grounded in patience. If you wish to treat others with kindness as commanded in the Quran, you must be willing to bear both perceived and real wrongs—unilaterally.  You must train yourself to abandon the habit of taking constant offense. This is the essence of patience.

And without this patience, one cannot truly be counted among the fortunate.