SEVERING TIES

In Islam, cutting off relationships and ceasing communication is considered forbidden. Numerous hadiths on this subject are recorded in the major collections. Both Sahih al-Bukhari and Sahih Muslim include the following narration:

“It is not permissible for a person to sever ties with his brother for more than three days. When they meet, one turns away and the other does the same. The better of the two is the one who initiates the greeting of peace.” (Sahih al-Bukhari, Hadith No. 6077)

Another narration mentions that the gates of Paradise are opened every Monday and Thursday, and every servant who has not associated anything with God is forgiven—except for those who are in conflict with one another. It is said: “Postpone their matter until they reconcile.” (Sahih Muslim, Hadith No. 2565)

In another narration, a Companion reported: “I heard the Prophet of Islam say: Whoever cuts ties with his brother for a full year, it is as if he has shed his blood.” (Sunan Abi Dawud, Hadith No. 4915)

Another narration in Sunan Abi Dawud states: “It is not lawful for a Muslim to cut off ties with his brother for more than three days. Whoever does so and dies in that state will enter the Fire.” (Sunan Abi Dawud, Hadith No. 4914)

It is common practice in society for people to cut ties and refuse to speak to one another when they become angry. This behaviour is found among both men and women. However, Islam considers it a serious wrongdoing. In fact, it is often the first step toward a breakdown of peace. The matter is so grave that if a person dies without reconciling, there is a real risk of divine accountability—even if they had observed prayer and fasting.